I wear them for me, not for you!

Some people seem to be under the impression that girls wear cheeky bikinis with the sole purpose to impress men. Some women refuse to wear one because they think it is an invitation for men to harass them. And some men believe the women who are wearing them are craving their attention and trying to woo them with their assets.

If you are one of the people who think this, you need to get off your high horse and get over yourself.

This is completely ridiculous. These so much more to cheeky bikini than meets the eye.

We are not doing this to impress anyone! We wear cheeky bikinis because they make us feel confident and free. They simply make us feel good.

In December last year, the UK Daily Mail wrote an article about Karrueche Tran wearing a cheeky bikini, in order to capture something that was hardly news. They angled the article to suggest that she was wearing the cheeky bikini to show ex-boyfriend Chris Brown “what he was missing”.

Look at these pictures below. Does she look like she’s flaunting it for the boys?

Source: UK Daily Mail

The correct answer is no.

To the men out there who think we’re trying to get their attention, no we don’t want you to whistle and call out to us. Please stop. If you think our cheeky bikinis look so good, maybe you should buy your own.

Look, they make ones for men too!

Source: Ebay

To the women out there who judge us for wearing cheeky bikinis. Although we couldn’t give a toss about what you think, it still saddens us that you would stand against the rights of your own gender like this. As women, we are constantly judged and abused due to what we wear. You are not helping the problem.

And finally, to the women who step out proudly in their cheeky bikini, despite of all of this. You are utterly incredible. I give you a standing ovation.

Ignore the haters.

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